There are reasons why safety and self-reliance each depend on the other. Both need trustworthy neighbors. Both depend on rational thinking and foresight. When we are confronted by growing disorder we would do well to think carefully about safety and self-reliance. Most of us can see that civil order is deteriorating. And surely we know that when the going gets tough, our neighbors will matter to us.
What will happen when we can no longer depend on emergency services or well-stocked stores? It might become impossible to get assistance from outside our neighborhood.
The community we live in, whatever it may look like, is where essential needs must be met, where social problems become personal problems, and where safety is a paramount concern.
Do we know which skills are possessed by our neighbors? Are we developing community gardens and learning how to preserve food? We will be confronted by necessity as the world unravels around us. Those who ignore this, do so at their peril.
Local communities are where we have the most control—and the most to lose. They must be made self-reliant by those who intend to be self-reliant. This is a commitment and source of strength. But we need dependable neighbors with practical skills, knowledge and experience.
Each of us is called to step forward, to build working relationships, to patiently encourage one another in constructive action. Making things happen will mean listening to our neighbors, learning what they know, and being ready to cooperate. We are not used to living this way, but we can do it!
Necessity can only be met with courage, patience, and personal initiative. With a positive attitude and a readiness to persevere, safety will come with unity of purpose.
Community self-reliance comes alive in working relationships that cultivate trust and meet common needs. Just as we learn by doing, so also do we earn trust—reaching out across differences in tradition, politics, and experience.
Effective decision-making takes advantage of the knowledge and thinking of a diversity of perspectives and inputs. If we listen to one another with genuine curiosity, drawing out constructive ideas, decisions will often produce more than expected.
As I have often said, there is no need to alter our values or views. Agreement will only be necessary concerning the immediate needs at hand. In the process we will come to know and better understand one another. Dependable alliances and respectful collaboration will only emerge when we allow it.
The goodness in human beings is often veiled by injuries, sorrow and pain. Lack of self-confidence often comes across as arrogance or aggressiveness. We need to reach through the damage people have suffered, to free their hidden strengths and potential for loyalty.
It can require patience and compassion to uncover the beauty in someone who is being difficult or ugly. We know it is there, because this is how human beings are made. Responsibility falls to each of us. Freedom depends on it—for ourselves and for others.
Those who persist in negativity should be left to themselves. Still, whatever their attitude, we can assure them we stand ready to assist in time of need. It will be deeds and not words, giving and not taking, forgiveness and not blame, which will carry us through the darkness and out the other side.
Those of you who understand trust and responsibility—and who recognize the very high stakes involved—will build the foundations for the future.
What is essential is that Americans stand together, making firm our commitment to easing and overcoming the anxiety and suspicion that swirl around us. We will refocus our vision and values with such strength of purpose that partisan politics will be powerless to subvert.
Tom
You may watch for the next post on or about September 1.
From the forthcoming book: An annotated Table of Contents, a revised Introduction, and several sample chapters are linked at the top of the homepage.