This is a very challenging time; a time of testing, of self-examination and soul-searching for a society confronted with disruption and uncertainty. In the midst of conflict and distrust, Americans are called to envision our future as a nation—a vision worthy of our better selves—and to find a way forward with a spirit that transcends our differences.
How can safety, security, and collaboration become possible at a time such as this? It is a tall order, and there is no quick fix.
As individual citizens we have little control over eventual outcomes, yet we can surely place the imprint of personal commitment, of our caring and our spirit, on the character of our purpose.
The challenge before us is immediate and unavoidable. The consequences of our actions or inaction will be profound. For this reason, I have proposed that we consider our personal contributions—our own actions—in a new way.
I ask that you to think of yourselves as gentle leaders.
What do I mean by this?
Leadership is understood in different ways. Many people assume that a leader is someone with commanding authority or influence. That is not what we need now.
If we are to build strong, resilient communities amid the disorder of today’s world, such a view would be useless, or worse.
If security depends on a diversity of experience, perspective, and learned skills—as it certainly does today—leadership must understand this. Resolving problems, meeting needs, and finding safety will require all the resources we can put in place.
Please think of leadership as taking active responsibility for gathering and encouraging your neighbors to engage in planning and constructive action. This can be done selflessly, and with generosity of spirit.
A civilized future will depend on an integrity anchored in trustworthiness. Are we up to this? Can we persevere despite the distrust that abounds around us? Never has courage and a steady hand been so essential.
Local communities can build the foundations for the future even as we address shared needs and act in our own best interests.
Personal initiative matters! The future can begin around your kitchen table. A nucleus formed with just a few neighbors can make things happen. Don’t argue! Don’t wait!
Human civilization depends first on loving families, engaged neighborhoods, and functional communities. This is our place. This is where order is established, experienced, and proven.
Authentic community cannot be invented with wishful thinking. The small steps that create safe communities can begin at any time—today or tomorrow. And the small steps are the most important.
Our role as citizen-leaders is to bring community to life through constructive action—quietly, little by little, every day. To think and act responsibly we need to engage our neighbors gently, effectively—all of them—regardless of our differences. We need to cultivate relationships that get things done.
We do not need to agree on everything—only on what needs to be done. If we are serious, we will gradually mold simple relationships into trustworthy alliances and, sometimes, genuine friendships.
Everyone is capable of concern for our place in the world. Some may need convincing, but with steadfast patience we can bring them around.
Tom
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My forthcoming book, “Liberty and the American Idea,” will be published and available in the coming weeks. The introduction and several sample chapters are linked at the top of the homepage.